As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.About 99% of guys think that being “thoughtful” is about telling a woman how pretty she is, or buying her flowers, gifts or lavishing attention on her at obvious moments.
and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
And the best part is that you can do it easily and effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself into someone you're not... Here's the hidden key to reeling them in: Younger women want to be enraptured by a man.
They may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched, possessed and seduced by a man -- and they don't mind surrendering to his siren maneuverings and be rendered powerless by him.
But when it comes to whether she’ll see you as boyfriend material, thoughtfulness takes on a whole other meaning.
It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it.